A mutual agreement or a ”commitment” is established as a way to control the other person's life according to your feelings. Which means your don't truly accept that person for who they are. If you need to control them- in order to accept them, then that means you don't truly love them. Often times you hear people say they want to commit to a person- but they are essentially lying to themselves. Let's be real; when people say they want a commitment- they mean they want to exclusively have sex with that one person (which is fine if that's what you want to do) but it just depends on your intentions. Are you doing that because that's who YOU are? Or are you doing that because you want the other person to be exclusive to only you? Would you still be committed to that person if they didn't agree to also commit to you? Whenever a mutual agreement is made, it's a form of manipulation because your intentions behind doing that is to control them - not to actually accept who they are as person. You're more so ”committed” to ”protecting” your own feelings - so you have your own best interests in mind, not the other persons. Think about it like this - If a person was only dealing with you based on how beneficial you are to them... would you say that person truly loves you???
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