Why I don’t shave (any! body hair) – And how it enhanced my love life.
Why I haven’t shaved my armpits, legs, pubic hair or any other body hair for the last 2 years, and all the benefits that has!
Are you grossed out by others who don’t shave? Or are you thinking about quitting the shaving routine yourself? This video might give you some insight into why one would stop to remove their hair, and how that can improve your love and sex life.
First a few simple reasons: I just don’t like shaving. It takes time that I would rather spend on something more fun. It takes planning if you want to go to the beach, have sex, go out, etc. – Shaving also irritates my skin, especially shaving my pubic hair would result in itchiness or ingrown hairs. On my ankles, accidental cuts. Other methods didn’t work for me either. Waxing hurts and is not even always effective. And using a chemical hair-resolver seems super unhealthy to me. A last simple reason: I like the way I look with pubic hair more than without pubic hair. Maybe it’s because I never watched porn, so I haven’t seen many shaved pussies in my life, so if I see myself or someone else with a shaved pussy, it just makes me think about the way I used to look when I was six… a not yet matured child’s body, not sexy.
Shaving my body hair has felt as a rejection of my own body, and I knew I was only doing it because of the social norm. I have unconsciously been programmed all my life with pictures and movies in which the beauty ideal of this society is being presented as the only way it should be. I think it’s the reason why many women feel ugly. I wanted to feel different, I wanted to love love love my body the way it was naturally born into this world. When I stopped shaving, I honestly disliked the way my legs and belly looked. And in the presence of other people, I have felt shame, I felt as if I wasn’t allowed to wear skirts anymore. But I just kept going, and slowly I started feeling more secure, more confident, more beautiful. Slowly my mind started detaching itself from the current beauty ideal and norms of this society, and I started accepting and embracing my hair. And that’s a beautiful thing to experience because it increased my self-acceptance, self-love, and confidence.
How do you develop confidence and self-acceptance? By simply being yourself, feeling the fear or shame, but being your authentic you anyway. Experiencing shame of my hairy armpits during yoga classes has only made me stronger.
Did my love life suffer because men don’t want to share intimacy with a wild, hairy women? Not at all. It has actually improved my love and sex life. It works like a filter. Yes, some men have openly rejected my ‘masculine-looking legs’, or my hairy pussy. Am I afraid to be openly rejected? No. I am actually happy they rejected me early on in the process of getting to know each other, in that way we both don’t have to waste any time on a non-compatible relationship. The filter: men who don't want to be with a woman who chooses not to shave, are not men I would want to be with. And during the last years, I have been with many men who even liked the fact that I choose not to shave. And some of them even shaved their own body hair but were completely fine with me making another choice.
I’m so happy that right now I have taken back the power over my own body. I am the ONLY person who gets to decide what I do and don’t do with my body hair.
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